what do you do
when it seems like the universe is conspiring against you to make your bridal experience thoroughly disappointing?
one example: apparently i'm going to vegas for my bachelorette party. guess who else is going? one bridesmaid and her two random friends who i barely know.
i wish i could go on about the ways in which the whole bridal experience has been completely miserable, but then you'd have to cue the violins.
anyway, so my question is: what do i do? do i pretend that i'm not depressed and hurt? do i get angry? do i speak up? do i silently seethe?
one example: apparently i'm going to vegas for my bachelorette party. guess who else is going? one bridesmaid and her two random friends who i barely know.
i wish i could go on about the ways in which the whole bridal experience has been completely miserable, but then you'd have to cue the violins.
anyway, so my question is: what do i do? do i pretend that i'm not depressed and hurt? do i get angry? do i speak up? do i silently seethe?
Labels: bridezilla
4 Comments:
No, you go to Vegas, get completely wasted and do whatever you feel like with or without the people you don't want around. Then if anybody gets mad at you they can blame it on (1) you being drunk, (2) you being in vegas and (3) you being the bridezilla!
oh wait i misunderstood...
nobody else is going but those 3 other people?
what kind of lame friends are these? Didn't you travel all over the place for their parties?
Yes I would make a big shit about it. You have been there for other girls and now it is their turn to be there for you.
In most instances, i would agree with shawn. But lately i find myself wondering, what is the point of wasting energy on negative things or negative ppl??
Karma is a bitch..what comes around, goes around . I think happiness is always the best revenge. Focus on the positive: you will be getting married to the man of your dreams in a few short months in a spectacular, fabulous wedding, surrounded by friends & family who DO love you and support you!
damn i just left a comment and it disappeared! to sum up, im with scorpsy... dont stress yourself out more. just forget it. weddings show you who is really your freinds and who is not. be glad you are learning these lessons now and can move fwd in your married life without the dead weight.
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